Thinking it was a app for dating, I went on a date with a guy. He had many great qualities, we had fun spending time together and I went home confident that would hear from him again. We went out on a 2nd and 3rd date, and on the 3rd date we had sex.
Now, I of course regret sleeping with him a little too soon and know I could have waited a bit more. Long story short, he doesn't want to pursue me/be with me.
Do you think a man automatically assumes a woman is not girlfriend-material just because he meets her on Tinder? Does he assume that she is a "slut" or see her badly for it?
Do you think that the stigma he may have put on me prevented him from really getting to know me and appreciate my qualities?
I can't help but to blame myself for not having known better and feel I messed it up with a great guy. He probably thinks I'm a bimbo, even though I showed valuable qualities about me regardless.
Most Helpful Guy
No you didn't do anything wrong.
People who are hookup only don't go on dates period.
Third date sex is quick-relationship track sex. It's not too soon.
Either he was never interested in more or it was at the point where he was going to get serious or not and opted not.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
your not valuable as a person if you have sex after three dates. He didn't reject you because you met on tinder - he rejected you because you had sex with him after only 3 days.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE