Hi I'm 23,
So I've given up on dating, girls and sex.
Girls, they all seem the same, they love attention, leading guys on, cheating and are often very naive... The smart girls are just too good for me and I'm just stuck in the middle.
Whatever the reason, Girls and I just won't be in a relationship or have sex. Attractiveness, personality? I can't change who I am, and that does mean I am unable to get a girl.
I've tried being myself, confident, and various places, dating sites, clubs, bars, classes, bank line ups, supermarkets...
I am an independent shy guy, I would love to treat a girl like my queen and have sex don't get me wrong.
I guess some people in this world are not meant to have sex or be in a relationship, like me, maybe I just have bad DNA.
I haven't had sex or had a girlfriend before.
Sick and tired of hearing just wait, it will happen when it's meant to, you will find a girl who deserves you... It's all a lie, you have to go fight and try... But it's a losing battle for me.
So is this correct? Some people are meant to stay single?
Most Helpful Girl
You're 23, and you're giving up already? Okay. There is a problem.
Getting a partner is harder for some people than others, but what you're saying makes it sound like you really want one—and girls can sense that a mile away. I will be very genuine with you: that intense desire is off-putting. You don't genuinely sound confident. You sound like you fake it for women's sake. And women can tell.
I'm not saying its wrong to want a relationship... but if a notice a guy is too eager to get to know me/too "nice", I feel like he's going to be too much work.
Attraction might be an issue, I don't know what you look like. But you're only 23 years old. I think there's a bigger problem if you're giving up this early...0
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