A few weeks ago I was seeing this guy, we weren't official but we'd been going on dates for about 2 months. He stopped putting effort in and was getting with other girls even though he knew it upset me so I called it off.
These past few weeks he's been ringing me and texting me constantly asking to talk but I've ignored him. Then one day he left me a load of voicemails saying he missed me, and he didn't know what he wanted but the minute I cut it off he realised he wanted me and that he liked me. He started texting all my friends asking them to get me to speak to him. He's promised to put more effort in this time but I don't know whether to believe him. I do like him but I don't want to get hurt again.
Should I agree to meet up with him to talk about it or will he never change?
Most Helpful Guy
You should talk to him bout it but don't let your guard down. This happens a lot. People dating but decide to hook up with other people then wanna run back to the first people they were with. You should be careful, he could be playing you. Usually when people are dating, in a way that does mean you're official without really saying.2
Most Helpful Girl
Give it a shot. Talking it out can't hurt.0