I dated a guy I met online for 3 dates, he broke it off with me all of a sudden because he was unsure and wanted to be friends. I made no contact with him, but he kept asking to meet within the 3 weeks we broke it off. We never had sex or kissed as well.
I met up with him last night for drinks, and he brought up the time he ended it. I asked what's missing between us? And he said he wasn't even sure himself, and he thinks I'm perfect and all his mates thought he is stupid for ending it with me. When I told him, that I deleted the app that we met after he broke it off, he kept asking why? and I said I just don't belong there and the sad part was he knew more about me than I knew more of him because he was always quiet - then all of a sudden, he said, "we can continue to date, if you want". I was completely surprised.
We went to a few bars, he was being close, holding my hand as we were walking/dancing too, we weren't drunk either, and he kept staring at me and he was thinking. I asked what he was thinking and he said wondering why you are so great and I can't see what is missing between us. I said you should listen to your heart and instinct, I can tell you are attracted to me, but there is something you are holding back.
All of a sudden, he kisses me and we were making out 7 times (he initiated them all), even gave me a love bite and it was amazing. When I left for my train, we made out one last time and he said how he loves the smell of my hair and my perfume.
This morning he texts me apologizing and saying "are we cool? and how he feels bad that I might be expecting something more and it won't happen" and i told him to stop saying sorry and feeling guilty because i don't regret it and i had a good time and yes, part of me expects something more could happen and it isn't over yet and it needs more time.
Should I just move on? What is he thinking? I thought it wasn't over because we were making out and he clearly wanted to.
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Sounds like he can't make up his mind bout if he wants to be with you or not. If you really like him, try to give it shot. He has to be clear about what he wants instead of stringing you along. After a certain while he keeps doing the same thing, you gotta decide if it's worth waiting for him to decide or move on0