For example if you invest your time in a girl taking her to nice places and spending your money on her, do you expect sex in return and would you dump her if she doesn't sleep with you after 2 months of this?
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No and yes.
I don't want a hooker.
Indo spend money on the expectation she likes me as a man, not just a helpful object who spends money on her. If that belief gets undermined and i feel like she's not attracted then i'd feel like she used me. Why did she keep dating if she wasn't attracted? She should have said no unless she was happy using me.
So it's not that I'm buying sex. It's that i enjoy treating a woman who desires me as a man.2