Guys, if you invest a lot in a girl, do you expect sex in return?
What Guys Said 21
It's true that a lot of guys are like this. I don't agree with it, and I dare say they are the loud minority.
I'd say, for most of us, I'll correct two parts of your assessment:
1. It's not really about sex as much it is about gratitude.
2. It's not entitlement. More like having a very low tolerance for being taken for granted.2
Absolutely not. She's not a prostitute. If I invest a lot in a girl, I do it because
1) I'm in love with her, or
2) I'm courting her, or
3) I enjoy being generous with her.
Or all three things combined. But never to get sex.1
No. Never. No one should have expectations, so they'll never be disappointed.
I would stay with her and continue as we are just as long as it is enjoyable being with her.1
I would do it, just so that she would stay with me... Sex, would be going WAY over and beyond, for what I expect in return... Yes, that is a manifestation from desperation.1
If a guy is investing in you just for sex means nor you neither relationship means anything for him he is just there for sex in my opinion not worthy for a relationship type of person1
If nothing happens on the first date (does not have to be sex but at least kiss/makeout) then on to the next one!1
I do not treat sex and dates like they are rewards.2
Kinda, yeah. If not sex then at least something in return than waste my resources on nothing1
We expect that our time won't be wasted and that we won't be led on.2
I'd just want her to be available at the right amount and be as happy as can be.1
nope, i'd only do that if i like her and want to see her happy1
nope! waiting for marriage1
It would be nice, but not expected1
I would expect sex even without investing, LoL1
Yes I do and yes I would0
I don't know if "expect" is the right word, but I would certainly want and hope for the kind of intimate relationship that includes sex, for sure. If our relationship did not blossom into that kind of connection and intimacy after 2 months I would most likely end it before then.1
As a young person I say no , I don't expect sex in return if a ever dated a girl (maybe in future) and invested a lot on her, but I will expect caring , to truly love me and tell me how much I mean to her , but also I will only invest a lot if I was sure that I will marry her1
Yes. If she's not- she has problems. Move on.1
If no sex by 3rd date, there is no 4th date. I expect a return on my investment.2
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What Girls Said 1
No, that is like saying you are buying sex from her? If you want to invest in her thats your choice therefore you should not expect something in return. Ofc it would be good with sex as well if you like her but you shouldn't expect shit or demand sex just because you bought her stuff.1
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