Who should pay on the first date? Girl or the guy?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • It depends on the couple themselves.

    It's up to them to establish that according to what they're comfortable with and their circumstances.

    Personally I'd offer to pay first. If she goes on and fights me to pay then I'll split it with her, if she just offers, then I'll kindly turn down the offer.

    People are different. You adapt.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Pay for yourselves.
    Or dine and dash if you two are risk takers.

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What Guys Said 16

  • If I'm asking her out I will insist on paying no matter what. If I ask her out 20 times in a row I will pick up the bill 20 times.

    If she's asking me out I will offer multiple times and try to convince her to let me cover the bill. If she's okay with it I'm more than happy to pay. If she insists and doesn't take no for an answer, I'll let her but only after making sure she knows she doesn't have to.

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  • Should? The one who invited (Which typically is the guy, but that aside..) and the other one should at least ask to split, but need not insist.

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  • This issue pisses me off honestly. some women are offended if you dont offer to pay, and others are offended if you offer to pay. It's only money, it's not what really matters for fuck's sake!

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  • Guy should pay. Girl should take guy home and suck him off as a thank you for paying. Everyone's a winner!

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  • I like to pay, it's the gentleman-thing to do. However, over the past 4 years I have been transitioning into splitting the bill.

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  • i think the guy should pay for like all of them. it shows the girl he is independent and mature

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  • either both pay there own or the person who asked for the date

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  • noone? haha just run.
    no really I don't care depends on my mood if I wanna pay

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  • Whoever arranged the date.

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  • girl

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  • The waiter or waitress.

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  • whoever asks the other on date pays.

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  • Guy.

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  • If she's asking me out she better pays for the thing!

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  • ALWAYS the girl!

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  • Well, I don't know about "should" but on all first dates I had, with the exception of one, the girl paid for the entire thing. Then again, it was almost always the girls that asked me out but even when I asked them out they sneaked off and paid before I got a chance.

    Generally the default should be to split the bill, though.

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What Girls Said 6

  • If I initiated the date, I'll pay. If he initiated the date, I'll at least offer to go Dutch.

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  • 50/50 seems like a better idea

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  • The Guy

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  • Guy.

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  • THE COOK 😂

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  • The girl.

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