Lets say you and a guy meet on a first date and you both have a lot in common, share similar values, passions etc.. but you don't find yourself having butterflies or think they are "hot" or very phycially attractive...
Most Helpful Guy
Generally the strongest physical attractions I had to girls were not established on first impressions. It took some time of seeing them repeatedly in different circumstances for me to really grow the attraction.
It's like a matter of noticing them in different lighting, atmospheres, different social situations, etc.
That said, if I started off not seeing the girl as attractive whatsoever, typically it remains that way. It's usually when I start off finding a girl at least remotely attractive that the attraction grows over time.0
Most Helpful Girl
Looks don't mean much to me if they have a great personality so I would still go on a date.1