Most Helpful Guy
Tell various people that are close to you and if an overwhelming amount say you need to end it and they have sound logic then you're in an abusive relationship. However, if you like it than you're merely in a relationship with a sadist.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
From what you are saying I don't think you are not experiencing emotional abuse. Emotional abuse is based on manipulating your partner to make them believe they are below you. Someone who is emotionally abused will probably end up feeling that way along with feeling like they are worthless, stupid and aren't cabable of anything bc that's what their partner tells them. The abuser shames and bullies A LOT, like not just a few cruel comments here and there but they hold onto them and WILL remind you whenever they get the chance. Everything that's bad will always be your fault according to the abuser and you will always be put down bc they will tell you that you aren't good enough. The abuser will likely also make decisions for you and be in charge bc that is a result of their intimidation skills. Sometimes they will even treat you like that in public and in the end you'll have a hard time leaving bc you feel like what they've told you is true and "you can't be byself bc you are too stupid."
Remember that the abuse is really obvious, not subtle, it is done on purpose and is a very intense and consistent form of abuse. Do you feel this way with your partner? Either way i think they are behaving poorly and you should have a talk, then decide from there what you wanna do.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE