We've been together for three years and he constantly says he'll leave me. The other day it was because I ate meat and he's a vegetarian. Now it's because he says he wants to have three more kids (we have one) in the next four years and if that doesn't happen he'll leave. It's really starting to get to me and I cry every day. How should I deal with this?
Most Helpful Guy
first of all the person is wrong for you.
a men raise a topic like this.
í am vegetarian. i am hindu and it is not allowed to eat meat. but i will say to eat meat. but I will never force for it. because that is something which you are doing since you are child. so he is not enough mature to understand this.
boys raise this topic when they want to leave you or girl do something very terrible
but í cannot see anything like that.
3 more kids.
having kids is not bad. tell him to become pregnant more 3 times. he is fool. í am not saying having kids are bad. but both partner wants are required. he cannot force. he do not deserve you.
first of all stop crying. start discussing.
it's not your fault.
i will not recommend you to divorce or breakup. we should hold the relationship thread until it cut our hand. but once we are done it's mean we are done.
think about the one kid.
tell him him you want only 2 kids or 3 which ever you want. and if don't want then tell him
he loved you. we sacrifice for person we love. ( please no egoistic people ).
i cannot see what he is sacrificing.
maybe he is sacrificing becuase he married a woman who eat meat.
then that is not a sacrifice it's a matter of choice. he can choice any other women that time.
and you are married or what.
if you are married then boyfriend is not the correct word. sorry he is husband.
in relationship likes yours. í do not care about the partners but the kids.0
Most Helpful Girl
Tell him next time he threatens to leave he better have his bags packed cuz you're gonna kick him out.0