But how can I get really good at it?
Also what I always feel like is in my way, I was bullied a lot in the past from that one girl. And she always had to be better than me and it was kind of like a fight between us to, who is better.
She won, before her it was all going great, over night I suddenly was the loser and so overwhelmed, I couldn't defend myself , I wasn't strong enough to that time. Moreover she archived that everyone started bullying me, I was a easy target for them.
With that also I got a certain Image and guys would stop approaching me, because who wants to be with a loser, right?
My goal is to reach the imagine of a person, I would like to be, that only exist in my mind.
One thing I need to learn to get there is Dating. So yeah, I really want to learn it. But I don't know how, well oke with learning by doing and experience but that is to slow for me and I would like to hear advices.
Most Helpful Guy
Best advice i have is not even worry about the dating scene. Work on being a better you. Do what you do to have fun and what makes you happy. One thing I've learned is to be confident in the person your are. The more fun you can have by yourself the more others will want to join. Trust me i used to be extremely quiet and would let peoples opinions bother me. You must realize that when people are doing this to you, they are being self reflective of their own issues when making fun of you. If anything people make fun of people they like or are jealous of. Hope this helps!2THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
Confidence in yourself, your thoughts, beliefs, and boundaries... so ask yourself what makes you hold up your head and feel strong? Find something and dive into it, a hobby, a passion, something... that is all yours... in dating be yourself... don't feel you have to change EVERYONE'S opinion of you because then you are pleasing everyone and not yourself... what helped me when I was getting back into the dating scene was I went to a speed dating session (with the knowledge that I wasn't going to see any of those guys socially) but it boosted my confidence...1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE