Well I decided to go out and get a little too drunk with my family and friends last night... He is in a different country of course so our time differences suck!! He was telling me he missed me and for some drunk reason I went off on him and told him he had to trust me.. (IDK WHYYYYY bc that wasn't even the conversation that we were talking about) I told him I wouldn't put up with him treating me like shit (WHICH HE DOES NOT!), and just drunken nonsense. He told me that he hated me drinking like that and that I needed to stop! For some drunk reason I then sent him a screenshot of a guy that "apparently" had gotten my number. (WHICH THE WHOLE TIME I WAS TELLING THIS GUY ABOUT MY DUDE AND HE WAS TELLING ME ABOUT HIS EX--). We are so honest with each other that I honestly think my drunk self did that... He asked me to screenshot the conversation and send it to him, which I did! He then said goodbye and I haven't heard back from him yet! I have tried texting and apologizing to him... even called him (but he was asleep) to apologize, I did leave him a voicemail... My question is, how do I fix this? Especially since he is deployed and in another country. I know that I honestly fucked up!
Most Helpful Guy
Well I was on the receiving end of that drunk call before. However i feel like you guys are tougher than I was when I heard it being said to me by someone I really loved. However she meant it, and left me. Even thougj i felt like we had great chemistry. What went through my mind was where did I mess up and how could I fix it. That she told me all that for a reason. I feel like he may be questioning that too, but at the same time he says that you should stop drinking like that. It may feel like he is making you do what he wants but maybe you should stop, at least while he is gone. It will give him the comfort, because he is not there with you and getting plastered like that and telling him what you did while he is not there. It is only going to make him go crazy thinking what is going on. My girlfriend and I were long distance as well for 3 years, she started spending time with some guy until 3am and he got all touchy with her apparently. She was honest and told me about but just because she told me didn't make me feel any better. It made me trust her, but it made me go crazy knowing there was some guy doing this to my girlfriend, like I wanted to be there anddo what this guys was doing. also that this other guy felt like he could just do what he wants. It isn't a good feeling, it can drive you crazy, give him some time and let him know you do care. Just keep in mind that even though they are your actions, they can affect other people. I always forgave her because i knew i could trust her. However she never forgave me for getting anxious about it haha.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
lol well lesson learnt! Don't drink out again! I'd keep trying to make things right and tell him you won't ever do that again. You aren't boyfriend and girlfriend yet, you didn't sleep with the guy and you didn't say anything too terrible so its not too bad of damage. I think if you really care and want to make it right then you should continue to try and do that. But you also have to remember that people need a little time.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
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