It seems that on every date I have ever gone on, I have had to spend at least 200aud for them to sleep with me, including the dinner, filling up their car, and one time I motel room because her parents wouldn't let me over. For the same price I can spend over an hour with a nice girl of ym choosing at a nice massage place. And I have been told that in a relationship, I will have to pay for absolutely everything for her: her rent, her bills, her rego, and feminine products. I am just stuck
Most Helpful Girl
That's your own fault if you do all that. No one has a gun to your head. You are just letting your dick take control of you.3
Most Helpful Guy
For years now, I have not done anything more than split the bill with any girl I have been with. While some were initially offended, most actually respected me for standing up for myself. In other words, even for me to decide to split the bill contributed to my aura of masculine charm, masculine charm being one of the two major means for a man to attract women.
The other major means is money, which is what you have been doing. And, in that case, yes, there really is no difference from prostitution.1