I went on two dates with this guy a month ago. We had a lot of fun in person, but he led with sexuality so I had to continually tell him I wasn't looking for a hook up. The other night, he randomly asked if I'm looking for a relationship and I said I'm dating to find out what I like. He asked what I like and then he said "I have that" and "I'm looking to settle down." A little confused as to why we haven't made plans, I said "nice, maybe we can get to know each other better then" and he said "well yes." Thoughts on this situation? Thanks!
Most Helpful Guy
I don't think it has much to do with him falling hard for you as it has to do with him just being upfront with his intentions from the start.0
Most Helpful Girl
To me it sounds like he wants to have sex with you, but since you've rejected his previous advances, he thought that telling you he wants a relationship will get him what he wants (sex). Be careful with this one. Dunno if what he's saying is true, but to me it just seems like he's trying to say things he thinks you want to hear. People looking for a serious relationship aren't so pushy with sex first.3