Lately I've been bashed here on G@G because I expect a MAN to make the first step towards a woman and NOT vice versa as in - "THE MAN should approach her first" ... why is this such a big deal? I mean most Women expect a man to do the first step, at least in my case, NOT LIKE he has to do BIG THINGS but just approach me and talk to me first...
It's funny how a few Men are self proclaimed decision makers and break winners but are now able to make the first step to win over a woman... ?
I might be wrong, but I would never approach a man I'm interested in first, I would wait for him to do it...
Is there anything wrong with this?
And why would they even BASH me and be MEAN to me just because this is MY WORLD an I WANT MY MAN to approach me first because I ain't doing that for sure !!!
Then of course a WOMAN CAN DO THE SECOND STEP, and continue with the flow... SORRY , but that's just me... 0.-
- A MAN should approach a WOMAN FIRSTVote A
- A WOMAN should approach a MAN FIRSTVote B
- It's just a matter of MentalityVote C
- OtherVote D
But woah, most of you really offended me, instead of just trying to make me understand your opinion you continued to bash me. THANK YOU... really civilized here.
Have a nice day
Most Helpful Guy
"- "THE MAN should approach her first""
The big deal is the word 'should.'
-There is nothign wrong with men approaching first. There is nothing wrong of you wanting them to do that. But to 'expect' it... tjat os neomg self centered.
"NOT LIKE he has to do BIG THINGS but just approach me and talk to me first..."
-If it's not such a big deal then why can't you do it? Not like you have to do big thngs, just approach him and talk.
"to win over a woman"
-So you're objectifying yourself and making yourself in to a prize? That goes against what feminists fought for, no?
"but I would never approach a man I'm interested in first"
-Your loss but that is your right none the less.8
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Most Helpful Girl
Oke, it's not right to bash you for your opinions
I personally always think that we're now living in the 21st century and it should be normal that girls can approach guys first.
of course it's nice if a guy does the first step, but why wait.
let's say there is a guy you totally like and he doesn't notice or he just didn't know how to approach you, so you both are still sitting and never see each other again, why wait? Why wait for an opportunity? that's so stupid in my eyes13