Lately I've been bashed here on G@G because I expect a MAN to make the first step towards a woman and NOT vice versa as in - "THE MAN should approach her first" ... why is this such a big deal? I mean most Women expect a man to do the first step, at least in my case, NOT LIKE he has to do BIG THINGS but just approach me and talk to me first...
It's funny how a few Men are self proclaimed decision makers and break winners but are now able to make the first step to win over a woman... ?
I might be wrong, but I would never approach a man I'm interested in first, I would wait for him to do it...
Is there anything wrong with this?
And why would they even BASH me and be MEAN to me just because this is MY WORLD an I WANT MY MAN to approach me first because I ain't doing that for sure !!!
Then of course a WOMAN CAN DO THE SECOND STEP, and continue with the flow... SORRY , but that's just me... 0.-
- A MAN should approach a WOMAN FIRSTVote A
- A WOMAN should approach a MAN FIRSTVote B
- It's just a matter of MentalityVote C
- OtherVote D
But woah, most of you really offended me, instead of just trying to make me understand your opinion you continued to bash me. THANK YOU... really civilized here.
Have a nice day
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It's a "big deal" because it really doesn't make sense.
I don't understand "men should do this" and "women should do this" because there's no logic behind it other than people spewing "I'm traditional!" It seems like a fail safe way (primarily for women) to cop-out of having to approach or pay for their food. Also, people don't take it seriously because these "old school"/"traditional" people want only the traditions that benefit them; not the whole stay at home on an allowance your hubby gives you while you take care of his kids part.
Ultimately if you want guys to approach and be traditional go for it, but there's no denying that no matter how old school you are, you live in a modern era where people are much less likely to adhere to those ideals. So you may have a harder time.
So as long as you don't complain that you're single and don't know why, nothing wrong with your mentality. But if you're moaning about single hood while sitting on your butt, making no effort - you know why and have no right to complain in my opinion. Ultimately do you.13
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