why don't guys ever chase after the girls cause to me it feels like girls are always chasing after the guys. why?
Most Helpful Guy
1: Feminism fucked up the mentality of women that makes them way less desirable. The movement created a victimhood mentality in all women to the point where they think every guy approaching them is a creep.
2: Men want to feel desired too. If a woman doesn't show forth any interest in us guys then we certainly won't put interest in her.
3: Girls don't normally 'chase guys.' Showing eye contact to a guy across the room, or hell winking at him, is not 'chasing.' Often women have double standards on what it means to do the initiation for men and women.
4: Chasing just outright sucks. Rejection sucks. Humiliation sucks. And whats the reward? The chance to even get a number from a woman who may not even text back? Guys aren't rewarded for the chase.
5: Chasing for women is LEAGUES easier. Men are 100xs more approachable than women. With point #1, guys normally don't assume anything of a woman when she approaches him.0
Most Helpful Girl
I've been "chased" plenty, my current boyfriend pursued me quite a bit as I was admittedly unsure in the beginning of our dating phase. Nowadays however those in the newer generation are less likely to do so, in my opinion because of the gender-expectation shift and a lack of social skills (attributed to the internet and social media being a more effortless/consequent ess form of communication).0