Is it creepy that a 32 year old man would want to date a 22 year old woman?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • It's... completely normal.

    I've read on okcupid, 30 year old males send more messages to teenagers than women their own age.

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    • Omg really that's weird

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    • theblog.okcupid.com/the-case-for-an-older-woman-99d8cabacdf5 shows the data, then turns into a plea for younger men to date older women, though it's unclear who the barrier is.

    • This one shows to 18. So yeah I was referring to 18/19 year olds.

Most Helpful Girl

  • It isn't the majority certainly, but it isn't uncommon. Like, if she's happy dating him, what's wrong?

    Or are you worried about younger female competition... 😏

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What Guys Said 15

  • Totally normal.

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  • it's not creepy if they're both hot.

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  • Not creepy at all. Its actually more normal now days, with even bigger age gaps.

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  • If I had a 22 yo daughter, I wouldn't want her to date a 32 yo guy.

    On the other hand, I dated a 21 yo when I was 30.
    We've been married 20+ years.

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    • so what is the difference, in your eyes?

    • @applesandoranges22
      The difference is I know and trust myself, but I also know what a lot of older guys think when they are with young women.
      My wife and I would do a lot of fun things like tossing frisbee, playing badminton, playing Scrabble etc., but not sexual things. We didn't even kiss until we got married. (This probably seems weird to you, but we got to know each other really well.)

      If I got to know the guy and I thought his intentions were noble, I'd be OK with the hypothetical 32 yo.

  • A little funky monkey but seems a bit normal too as it gives the guy at least 5 more years to think about kids

    You date a women that's 34 time to pop those suckers out tomorrow

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  • No, that's not creepy. They're both adults and if they get along well, there's nothing wrong with it.

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  • No but it's creepy the other way around

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  • I don't think so, I've seen bigger gaps actually.

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  • Why would it be creepy? You're both over 21 !!!

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  • if the 32 yr old isn't a creep no, they're both adults

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  • Nahh

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  • nope

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  • No, unless he's some kind of weird stalker guy.

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  • no. Think its fine and would date a 10 years older women too.

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  • no, but older women dating younger men is creepy

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What Girls Said 9

  • It's only 10 years and it's not like a 22 year old dating a 12 year old. Both are adults. Not weird

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  • I think it's fine. I've seen much bigger age gaps.

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  • I've been in this predicament where a man ten years older than me was pursuing me HARD. It made me very uncomfortable. I had to block him on social media.

    So, I think it depends on what the woman wants and how the older man is pursuing her.

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  • I don't think so. I don't think that's a bad age difference

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  • They're both adults. Once you're 18 and older, age difference matters less. :)

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  • Nope.
    Unless he's a creep.. which isn't an age based thing.

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  • It's not too weird, it's only a 10 year age difference and she's old enough to legally drink

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  • that's normal

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  • Seems perfectly fine to me

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