Well hello there Ladys and Gentleman ^^
So I've been through my first brake up now, we have been together for 4 years and she already has a new guy.
It's been around half a year since we broke up and I have to admit that I still think about her on a regular basis and I kinda miss her (or maybe just the intimacy we shared) but even so I wouldn't take her back if there would be a chance to do so.
In my time being single multiple girls told me they are attracted to me and would like to be more to me than just friends but I turned them all down because I was scared that me still thinking about my ex could destroy a new relationship.
On the other Hand a new relationship could make me stop thinking about my ex but I don't want to use girls just to make me feel better.
Turning them down left me with few to no friends at all and I actually feel lonly because I don't have anyone to talk to or go out with.
So when do you think I'm ready for something new?
Should I wait till I completely stop thinking about my ex?
Should I start a new one and let it help me to forget?
I just don't know, like I said it is/was my first brake up ^^
Most Helpful Girl
When my ex left me I thought getting with someone else would help me forget about him. It didn't and it just made me feel 100 times worse than I already did. I found that just focusing on myself gave me the strength to move on. Once I was happy just being alone, I knew then I was ready to start a new relationship. I don't think you should wait until you stop thinking about your ex completely. The chances are that you'll never stop thinking of them completely but you will eventually move on. If you feel you're ready to give your all to a new girl then go ahead and start a new relationship now. But if you still feel stuck, give it a bit more time.0
Most Helpful Guy
When you feel like it0