I am a 20 year old guy who lives in Xanthi, Greece. A shitty little town in the middle of nowhere and I have never had a girlfriend, one night stand, friends with benefits and haven't even kissed a girl ! I have always been a shy person at first but with someone close to me I open up quite a lot. When I was younger like early teens (13-14) it was worse I was even more shy to the point that I couldn't even talk to my 1st crush. Through my friends I found out I was rejected and she didn't like me. Then when I was 15-16 I had my 2nd major crush and at this point I talked to this girl at school but it took me about a year to tell her my feelings. Obviously I got rejected and was told she had a boyfriend. Basically the few times I fell for a girl I got rejected and I have NEVER EVER had a girl show interest in me or ask me out or flirt with me etc. I have always been hopeful but I'm at a point where my confidence is only going to get worse worse. My past has not helped me be a confident person. The thing is I'm not even ugly. I'm actually kind of handsome (although because of me being a loser with girls I used to think I was ugly but not anymore). So I don't understand why I'm so unlucky or why I'm have to feel like this ! I have even considered psychotherapy lately because this is driving me crazy. I don't have any specific crush and I'm not in love atm with someone but I just want to experience love, a kiss, sex and the fact that this moment hasn't come for me, makes me feel inferior or less of a man or a loser because of this and I don't know what to do !
I'm 20 and have never had a girlfriend. I need mental help ?
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What Guys Said 3
First of all I'm greek , too... so high five ^^
You seem to me a bit pessimistic and I personally hate pessimism. Your affirmations about your life are way too negative and that won't help you to improve it, for sure.
I have (or had) problems like yours and I think I feel you. I don't have some really helpful advice for you. Just try to be possitive.
Maybe I'm too young but i've learnt from my life that i'm very lucky even though i used to believed i 'm not. I'm still trying to fix my character and seeing the bright side. Also negative feelings radiate to the people around you , so they will try to avoid you. Being always happy and confident attracts other , positive people. :)1
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If you surpass age 25 then you can start complaining0