I'll make this brief. Went on two long dates with a guy, slept together on the second. This didn't change things, both kept in touch and planned a third. He bailed due to illness. When he got better, he asked me out for a drink. I declined as it seemed like he was just after sex, as some of his messages were very suggestive. He strongly denied he wasn't and was tired of all that and wanted to see me.
So, I relax and open up more to him. We plan another date. His messages turn sexual again and he sends me a dick pic.
We swap a few pics over the next few days, and the reasons I did are: 1. I quite liked him. 2. he'd started it all and seemed very open minded about sex, which I am as well but nevertheless, I still started to feel a bit worried that he was lying, and was only after one thing.
So I THEN get a message from him saying he doesn't want to meet up, as he thinks this is going to turn into just sex and he doesn't want that.
I replied "well why don't we just leave the physical side out and concentrate on getting to know each other? I'd rather much prefer that to be honest."
He replies: "I don't know why. I just don't feel it's right meeting up. I'm sorry. It's my loss."
To which I say: "well, all I can conclude is that you're not interested in me enough to date romantically, and maybe all the excitement vanished after we slept together. OR you're seeing someone else."
He said the first bit made no sense, and the last comment wasn't true.
I feel like such an idiot. he's messed me about and he know's that.
What is up with him?
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he's only after sex0