So, I relax and open up more to him. We plan another date. His messages turn sexual again and he sends me a dick pic.
We swap a few pics over the next few days, and the reasons I did are: 1. I quite liked him. 2. he'd started it all and seemed very open minded about sex, which I am as well but nevertheless, I still started to feel a bit worried that he was lying, and was only after one thing.
So I THEN get a message from him saying he doesn't want to meet up, as he thinks this is going to turn into just sex and he doesn't want that.
I replied "well why don't we just leave the physical side out and concentrate on getting to know each other? I'd rather much prefer that to be honest."
He replies: "I don't know why. I just don't feel it's right meeting up. I'm sorry. It's my loss."
To which I say: "well, all I can conclude is that you're not interested in me enough to date romantically, and maybe all the excitement vanished after we slept together. OR you're seeing someone else."
He said the first bit made no sense, and the last comment wasn't true.
I feel like such an idiot. he's messed me about and he know's that.
What is up with him?
Most Helpful Guy
Forget about him; what is up with you? You want a guy to date you in a romantic way and to get to know you. You don't want to think he is just looking for sex. You want more than all of that. So you fuck him in the second date.
Why do you think it went badly?0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
- Show AllShow Less
Most Helpful Girl
he's only after sex0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE