I'm going on my first tinder date and I'm super nervous. I haven't been on a date in over a year. I'm a 19 year old female virgin. The guy I'm talking to hasn't mentioned hooking up, we text all day, talking about random shit. He does flirt a bit and compliments me but at the same time he referred to me as his friend (we've been talking for almost a week). So I'm not really expecting sex, also I don't really want to have sex because I'm just not ready to do it yet (I'm insecure). But everyone refers to tinder as a hook up app, really I would like a relationship, am I expecting too much?
Most Helpful Guy
just tell him you want a real relationship. and yeah tinder can be used as a hook up app but people talk about that before meeting up. if anything just have fun as friends first and see what happens later on1
Most Helpful Girl
It's not just a hookup. My last ex was in a long relationship with me and we met on Tinder. There are guys on there who want relationships. It's like any other date you'll go on. The fact that you met on Tinder doesn't make it any different. Just go in it with a light hearted "I want to get to know this person" vibe.0