I met and became good friends with a guy. We hung out couple of times inside and outside. It is pure friendship, no feelings on both sides whatsoever. We hung out a lot as I was trying to get this friend back on their feet as he is going through a difficult time. I feel guilty for not telling my boyfriend about him or hanging out with him because we always tell eachother everything. I did not think of it, I was too focused on trying to help. I am so loyal and would NEVER betray him ever. On the other hand, I feel like perhaps I should let it go and never tell him about it as he would get very upset due to hanging out alone especially inside, and I just met this guy. Sort of like that quote, don't do good things that may seem otherwise. Perhaps some things are better left unsaid. What do you think? I really don't want my boyfriend to mistrust me because I've never betrayed him in any way for the whole 5 years together. :( PS: I am no longer hanging out with this friend until I introduce him to my boyfriend , honest opinions
Most Helpful Guy
This is tough. I don't consider myself overly jealous, but if my girlfriend was doing this I'd likely be at least a little upset. You didn't do anything wrong, but I would hope you could understand why your boyfriend might be concerned about it.
I guess the answer comes down to who your boyfriend is. You know him better than anyone. If you can explain the situation to him and you'd think he'd understand, even if he was slightly upset, tell him and maybe apologize. If you think he'd respond poorly it'd probably be better not to tell him. If that's the case you have to be really honest with yourself. If there really was nothing happening between you and the friend, just move on and learn something from the exoerience. If the situation was more intimate than you'd like to think than you have some soul searching to do.0
Most Helpful Girl
Always be honest. Always.
Would you want to know that your boyfriend was with a girl alone? It's just common courtesy. Keeping this from a SO to not bring "harm" unto them, disturb the peace or because YOU think it's for the best, is not fair or respectful towards your SO. Your boyfriend will appreciate your honesty and remember, don't treat others especially your SO like you wouldn't enjoy being treated.
Truthfullness, honest etc those things always win vs hiding things.0
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