So I've been seeing this girl for a couple months and we've been on awesome dates, and we both seem to have a really good time. she's had over 10 years of relationships spread across multiple guys (who were all either cheated on her or treated her like shit) and this seems to be the first time she's been single for a while. Here I come along, at first we were lovey dovey, then she realized that she's lost in life and does not want to comitt to a relationship which I say is fine I can wait but now after these couple of months I've been very supportive and helpful but I am very pushy (Talks about goals, and very deep into the future so i guess it overwhelms her) so when we hangout it's like we're a couple but although she has fun she doesn't wanna feel like we're although couple I don't know is it because of bad history, or because she actally is really busy (she does alot), and she does acknkwledge that im pushy. What should I do? She's really the first girl I've ever wanted to make serious and i really do love being around her i feel like I can help make her life better.
She doesn't want a relationship but she wants to keep me around?
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Your title says enough. Don't contact her again, don't reply and what so ever. She only sees you as a friend who she can get validation from. You will never be her boyfriend.
Also, you are too needy. You are acting like you need her in your life, when you don't.
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