I'm dating a very nice guy, I like his company but I don't feel "butterflies" when I'm with him. I used to feel that a lot with my ex (who was my first love).
Does it means I'm not in love with him?
- Yes, you're not in loveVote A
- NoVote B
Most Helpful Guy
Yes, that's what it means. I wouldn't suggest breaking up though, because truthfully, it is very rare (once or twice in a lifetime) to ever actually fall in love with someone. I only have once and have never felt quite that way about anyone else before or after.1
Most Helpful Girl
I didn't realise I was in love with my boyfriend until we took a hiatus and I realised how much it hurt to think that he made so much of my life happy and I was going to lose him.0