I was telling a co worker that I was starting to talk to a guy and he was trying to talk to me like he thought I was completely inexperienced and needed to have "the talk".
"Just because you guys hang out a couple times doesn't make him your boyfriend."
Yes I know that! You think I'm an idiot?
"And don't give it out too soon. Otherwise he might get bored."
Well in my experience, I've only had sex on the first date once. And a few months later, we admitted we loved each other. So that guy clearly didn't get bored. Only reason we're not together anymore is because I had to move far away and we just cannot do long distance.
by the way, that co worker is gay so he wasn't telling me that because he secretly likes me or anything
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Under the circumstances that you do decide to have sex on a first date and the guy is genuine, it's a strong sign of passion. Because the woman has agreed, it means that she feels that that there's a strong connection between him and her. If a woman has sex with me on a first date, I know she means business and is serious about a long term relationship.1