It's simple my boyfriend has asked me while having sex if he can eat me out but truthfully although it sounds exciting it makes me feel shy any advice as to how to overcome this? I know I should probably talk to him because I'm not really into getting oral but I'm ok with giving
Most Helpful Guy
My girlfriend is exactly the same way. We have overcome it, once. To do this we tried out a 69 position. Because she had something to focus on, and could only feel the sensations and couldn't see that I was giving them, she had a really good time.
It may just take some time. If you're not comfortable with it, then that's that. While my girlfriend enjoyed what we did, she hasn't been ready to come back to it again for a few months.
Good luck to you. I hope this disjointed attempt helped in at least some small way.1
Most Helpful Girl
I used to feel this way too but girl, trust me - make your pleasure a priority in the very beginning. Don't be all give and no take, or you'll lose interest in having sex over time.
There isn't much you have to do personally, other than "maintenance." If you're shy and self conscious you obviously can consider going to the bathroom to freshen that shit up or trim up/shave assuming you do, and from there just lay there, relax, and if something feels good, say it, if it doesn't, don't be afraid to give him pointers. "Faster, slower, higher, lower."
Also if you think that there is something he could be doing to enhance the experience (just as an example here, not a suggestion per se) don't be afraid to request he say, insert a finger or two - you get the gist.
Good luck to you.4