I've recently reconnected with an old friend who is recently separated (6 months) from his wife. We message constantly, have been on a few dates and have slept together. He told me last week that he is in a very messed up place mentally and thinks we should dial back on the physical stuff. He said he absolutely still wants to spend time with me and still messages me all the time, compliments me etc. I'm a bit confused as to what's happened here and whether there could be something down the track a bit or does he just see me as a friend and nothing more but I don't want to appear pushy or needy by asking. Has anyone been in this situation before?
Has he just friend zoned me?
What Guys Said 2
He said " we should dial back to physical stuff"
The guy you are talking about is just using you for his physical needs. He says that he wants to spend time with you but doesn't want commit.
I think you should speak him directly , which could clear all confusion.
Not experienced enough but you should go with the flow0
What Girls Said 1
He sees you as a friend he wants to hook up with from time to time.0
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