So me and this guy were organising a second date. He said he was free Tuesday evening and also this weekend and would like for me to come see him (and welcome to stay over at his). I said Tuesday and this weekend should be okay (politely said I wouldn't stay over). He then mentioned he was planning on seeing a friend on Tuesday evening but could always rearrange. I told him not to cancel plans with his friend (even though I was secretly hoping he would) ... didn't receive a text all weekend and now it turns out he's seeing his friend! Should I even bother seeing him in this Saturday? I don't even drive and i'm going to have to take a train and a bus just to get to his town. It takes 2 hours on public transport when it only takes 40 minutes by car.
Most Helpful Guy
NO. NO. NO. You never tell a guy to not cancel with a friend. He will 100% listen to you and think you are a sweet and understanding ideal girl. You cannot be upset about this. Guys take things at face value. Reading between the lines comes only once we understand the person, not by the second date.1
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Most Helpful Girl
Nope. He knows his friend for a long time and you're only a girl he has been dating. It's not like he is in a relationship with you in order to put you as a priority. Give him another chance.0