Seems just about every guy I message either ignores me (I figure those are the non paying members as they don't even look at my profile) or blocks me. The few that do get a couple messages in and then stop responding. I've done just about everything anything says to make my profile look good (short of professional photos). And while I'm a bigger girl, most people think I'm fairly pretty/cute/beautiful. Any ideas on what I can do to increase the guys willing to talk to me.
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Do you mean bigger as in Ashley Graham or bigger as in Melissa McCarthy during her Mike and Molly days? Not to be rude but most guys prefer a chick that is slimmer/fit. Yeah many like big girls but not in general. Online dating is harsh because unlike 'real life' people don't have to pretend to be nice to you. They can more easily ignore you or say whatever they want because you aren't face to face. So no matter what you say, how smart and funny you are, cute you are in spite of your size, if a guy isn't attracted to you initially he isn't going to be receptive. Also there are those men out there that prefer young women (some of them are delusional because they like a 50 year old divorcee with a beer belly and bald spot thinking they can bag a hot 20 year old lol) which is silly because you can't change your age. But unfortunately that is the nature of the game. People are more openly judgmental online. Maybe look for sites geared more towards people of your age group and weight range. Or get out and live your life. Do stuff you love to do and then maybe you'l meet someone.1