I got a text from him and he's really down about this. Here's what he wrote:
I told her that I couldn't pay for her uber to come over because my bank card was cancelled today. Someone tried to withdraw money from 2 ATMs with my account. The bank called me today and cancelled my card. I told her we can get together another night.
The she asked if I could pick her up. I told her I have no car insurance and I have to find a new carrier. My insurance kept jacking up my premium every six months and I got sick of it. I told her I've been taking the train to work.
She called and screamed at me telling me that I'm full of crap and that I just want to be cheap and not put any effort in and believes I just want to do all the work. She says she smells bs. I don't know what to say but thirst things really did happen and I don't know why she's trippin. She called me a lying conniving fabricated SOB. Why won't she just believe me?
So, I'm just as confused as he is.
"How is it that both things happen at once? I always come to you. You don't even ask me to text you when I get home anymore. It's like you don't care. You took a long time to reply which seems like you were working real hard to conjure the perfect excuse to get out of getting off your ass to make an effort to see me. I'm tired of this one sided bullshit."
Most Helpful Guy
sounds like she's a stuck up bitch, look if i can't find a girl to hang out through the worst n only during good times, then she can fuck off. Life has a lot of ups and a lot of downs too n you gotta be able to take the ride both ways, n if not then fuck ya i dont need u.0
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Most Helpful Girl
It's possible she was once hurt before?
My ex lied to me lots of times but it was one lie that I thought he was telling the truth and it was him being faithful and not cheating. Found out he was cheating on me. So it was hard at first to trust my current boyfriend at first but after talking to him and telling him about my ex I felt better and started to trust my boyfriend.
She shouldn't have overreacted because it is possible for something like that to happen. I have had 3 bad things happen to me all at once. That's life it happens. I think this is something they should talk out. Relationships is about communicating and understanding. Something like this shouldn't be over a text. They should just figure out a day to meet and talk.0