Most Helpful Guy
I'd say it is beter to be the shy one cause you get to know the guys a bit before hand. I'm guessing that your hot freind only gets to know a few guys personally also. The rest are just play things or people to praise her. She does not know them and won't get to know them. If she is a one night stand kind of girl then she does not even get to know the guys she makes love with that much. Where as you get the guys you get to know more.
Honestly having a few hot female freinds. I can tell you that you are lucky they are seeing her as mostly just a sexual thing. The guys that like you I'm guessing usually show that they are into you more for than just your body.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
It's better to be the cute one with occasional attention. I've been in your shoes before and every guy who wanted to be involved with her just wanted sex. They'd have a girlfriend, not over their ex so just using her as a rebound, etc. she mostly did it to herself because she portrayed herself to be that type of girl... which she was. Many guys don't approach me in that way but they'd speak and be friendly.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE