I'm 22 now and I've been with my boyfriend for 2 months. I had 2 shorter relationships before him but I didn't have sex or anything. I know that he had longer relationship and did all pf that that i didn't. I'm ashamed to tell him that. I really didn't want to do it with guys before, I could but i didn't.
I'm scared to tell him, because few guys before him made fun on me about it and i really don't want that from him or his guys. We're working together so it would be even worse if we broke up. I don't know what to do.
- You should talk about it with himVote A
- Don't tell himVote B
Most Helpful Guy
U saying u want to tell him u don't want to have sex and u didn't before?
Or u want to say.. look I didn't have sex before I didn't feel it with those guys and that's why am sill virgin but u r different :) and willing to go for it one day?
1st one is bad ( unless u say u don't want sex before marriage )
2nd one is amazing any man will respect the woman for that and feels he is appreciated. Unless he is immature2THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
Then wait till marriage to have sex. That is what you should just do. If he leaves because you won't have premarital sex then he doesn't deserve you. But you should have told them this before becoming official. They have the right to leave, but not to mock you. Don't feel ashamed. You would have slept with jerks who doesn't care about you, just wants sex obviously and made them your spiritual husbands for what? Then if you sleep with your current one, there is a good chance you will relive all the past sexual experiences through your boyfriend. You did yourself a good favor.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE