Let's say you really connect with them and you're interested in dating them and then they tell you they're waiting. Does that change everything?
Most Helpful Guy
If she's a virgin wanting to wait on intercourse but not other things, it's okay.
If she's not a virgin, forget it.
If she wants to wait for everything till marriage, I wouldn't date her casually. Maybe stay friends. If we were incredibly attracted to each other, we'd need to talk a LOT about how to know we would be compatible. THen maybe we could get engaged. But there's no way i'd just casually date her with no direction.
Now when I was 20 I might have... but that was a mistake.
There are two huge issues. One is that most dating doesn't really lead anywhere, so it would just be me being celibate till we broke up, not 'waiting'.
Second is actual waiting i'm quite capable of doing, but i'd guess maybe 1 in 5 women I would find sexually compatible, so waiting is very risky.1
Most Helpful Girl
If I like them a lot , then no , sex isn't something I require constantly and I'm a patient person when it comes to it. If I see myself with them in the future then I'm willing to wait0