I'm testing the guy I'm dating by offering to pay for my own meal on a date. If he accepts to let me pay for my own, does it mean that this guy is frugal and doesn't see a future with me?
He has paid for all of the dates we have gone on so far except for one. He told that he was broke after he had to get his car fixed and so I gave him back $20. I'm suspecting that I'm dealing with a cheap guy after that one instance.
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You're planning on "testing" a guy by intentionally telling him something that you don't really mean (I. e. lying to him) to see if he fits your sexist view of how a man should behave. That's terribly disingenuous and manipulative of you and you'd both do well to go your own separate ways.13