(This is guy 3 if you follow my questions~)
Ya know, I'm just going to say his name haha it's Ethan.
Basically, we've been going out for lunch at least once a week for the past couple of months. I'd definitely say that we're good friends. I wouldn't say that we're terribly "close" though. But, it's weird. He told me that he likes spending time with me, but whenever I try to arrange some kind of hangout after school, he always declines and says that he's "sooooo busy". Honestly, while there's truth in that, I know that it's not true. My theory is that he's afraid that I'll try to make some sort of move on him and he won't have the courage to push me away. I definitely wouldn't do that, for one, but that's all I can come up with haha. He's super shy and nervous about that kinda thing. I'd say that he's attracted to me (he's brought up sex numerous times) but hasn't really done anything? It's weird. This boi is singlehandedly the most perplexing person that I've ever met in my entire life. And that's a big statement. Well, basically everyone around us assumes that we're official or something (I also gossip whoopsie~) but still!! Has anyone had this kinda situation? And I just that type of friend that's only chill to hang out with in a school setting?
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He's probably just antisocial and doesn't like hanging out after school. You said he is quiet so that's why I say that. I'm super social talkative at school but don't like hanging out after school even with my best friends.2