Most Helpful Guy
It's possible - but so is winning the Lotto the first time you ever play it.
In real life, love is like anything else: it requires hard work and good decisions.
From what you say, you are social, get invited to parties, and otherwise do activities outside your house where single people of appropriate age are likely to be. So far, so good - you're doing what most unwillingly-single people aren't willing to do.
So, why aren't you getting asked on dates? It seems like perhaps you aren't sending out the right "vibe."
A few things you should know: guys generally look for girls who are physically attractive (but you don't need to be amazingly so, just decent), who are FUN, who are mentally/emotionally STABLE, who aren't overly clingy, needy, or demanding, and who are sex-positive. The more you can be those things, the better off you are and the more guys you will attract.
The other important thing is that MOST guys lack confidence and are afraid of rejection, so when they meet a girl they like, they try to flirt with her or show their interest by paying attention to her (many guys are admittedly lousy at this part!). Their goal in doing this is to see how you react, and they're looking for STRONG signs that you are romantically/sexually interested in them. Note: they're always going to ASSUME that you AREN'T interested in them until you prove otherwise, so you MUST make your interest in them obvious, or they'll question themselves and won't risk rejection by asking you out. Remember: they lack confidence and are afraid of rejection.
How do you show interest? Pay attention to them (to the exclusion of others). Cross the room to talk to them. Say hello, or better, give them a hug. Laugh at their jokes. Touch their hand/arm/hair. Compliment them. Flirt - be a little sexual, and smile/laugh about it. Be fun and easy to be around. Many girls don't "do their part" and so the guy never finds the courage to ask her, even if he's very into her.
You definitely should be putting effort into it, though. Sure, you might still get randomly lucky, but that's not COMMON.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
My friend met her now husband when they both turned a corner at the same time and bumped into each other. She was carrying eggs at the time and they fell to the floor, she gave him a piece of her mind and went on her way. As it turned out he lived a short distance in the same area and kept seeing her, so he started talking to her and the rest of history.
Don't stop trying just because you haven't been successful yet.
Out of curiosity, what do you do to find love?0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE