I'm 21 and have zero experience with girls. Everytime I try talking to a girl I get rejected. And I know most girls believe that guys who are struggling with dating should just man up and improve themselves. And I agree. I've been doing everything to improve myself for years. I study hard in college, I'm a gym rat, I've taught myself to play guitar and violin, to cook. Basically I try as hard as possible to be the perfect guy.
But I've feel as if I am one of those cursed guys who'll never be good enough and that whenever I meet a girl I find attractive she'll always overlook my good qualities and single out my flaws and use them against me. And they always do. As long as you have some flaw, she'll find it and destroy you with it.
Most Helpful Girl
i have high personality standards.
i couldn't care less about their looks but if i can't intellectually connect with someone on many topics then it's a no go.
i set my future boyfriend to high standards mainly because they'll be a potential husband so i can't just settle for what's available and i'm sure other girls think the same way2
Most Helpful Guy
This is one of the excuses that guys use when they have horrible "luck" with girls.
If we were to contact the last five girls who you approached, why would they tell us that they rejected you?2