But I've feel as if I am one of those cursed guys who'll never be good enough and that whenever I meet a girl I find attractive she'll always overlook my good qualities and single out my flaws and use them against me. And they always do. As long as you have some flaw, she'll find it and destroy you with it.
Most Helpful Girl
i have high personality standards.
i couldn't care less about their looks but if i can't intellectually connect with someone on many topics then it's a no go.
i set my future boyfriend to high standards mainly because they'll be a potential husband so i can't just settle for what's available and i'm sure other girls think the same way2THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Guy
So you have to find the girl attractive to even try? See that's a standard right there that you're imposing. Generally, the better looking the girl the more she can demand (because she has better guys chasing her).
You have to either lower your own standards or match theirs - nobody is entitled to anyone else's affections.4THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE