Just as the title said, my boyfriend started bawling his eyes out crying and stuff when i told him i wanted to break up. He started telling me im his everything, only thing he got, how he doesn't wanna lose me, etc. Before in the past he's told me that im his life, that he can't live without me, that he only exist for me, im his everything, without me he's nothing, not to ever leave him, im a part of him, his everything, how he loves me like he loves his mom, etc. by the way were in a long distant relationship. Ue basically begged me not to leave him. And kept crying. He didn't even wanna get off the phone so that we could text..
Most Helpful Guy
That's I hate this kind of relationship. In his mind, you are already his wife. And know you are telling him to split up? It might be better to ensure yourself that this guy would be totally yours before having sex. Well, you didn't ensure yourself, probably because you kinda knew that this won't last long, but your boyfriend didn't ensure himself maybe because he wasn't thought to do so.
So, dear anonymous women, you have unofficially married someone without even knowing what you are doing. You accepted to create a strong emotional and loving bond with someone who doesn't want to be without you. Maybe he doesn't love you and is just sticking to you because he really likes your personality, your sex, your presence, or anything else you are giving to him. That would mean that he still might be just lonely, and that he never learned how to love. You know that love never fades away? He kinda knew this rule and thought "this love will never fade away". But no, it's gone. Why?, he asks himself. Well, because this world can't differentiate between love and emotion, between god and Satan. But why does this happen? Because few know god, the pure love. The only thing they know is a shitty lie: halfway loving with sadness at the end. I was like this. My mom was. (I'm 15) And I don't want to live with this anymore, I can't.
Maybe you'll ask Jesus to teach you how to love by being filled with his love. It's your decision.
Sorry for any mistakes, I'm a German.0
Most Helpful Girl
he's hurt.. did you try to dump him out of clue or have things been going down hill for a while? but of course you can't stay with someone you're unhappy with either just have a good think about what you want and how you really feel for certain0