So I had a date tonight with this girl from school that I like. We had a lunch date a couple of weeks ago, but we didn't kiss at the end of it (in the middle of public in broad daylight, didn't feel right. Anyway, today we had dinner and then I brought her back to her place and walked her up to her door. We briefly talked up there, then I went in for a kiss. I think she thought I was going in for a hug first, and it was kind of awkward where she realized halfway through that it was supposed to be a kiss, and tried to kiss me. She then said something like "well that was a failed first attempt" and laughed. Then I kissed her again, and a few more times.
I really am worried about the awkwardness from that moment killing whatever might be between us. It didn't kill anything for me, but I worry about her maybe losing interest or thinking that we don't have chemistry because of it. The followup kisses were not long or deep, just kind of light, slightly open mouthed, but quick. I am kind of overly analyzing the whole situation, and I feel like I could have handled it better, and I'm hoping that I didn't mess things up.
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Aww. Ok, well she seemed ok with it. And she kissed you after. So you should be fine. Personally, I give it more than a few kisses like that to judge the chemistry. Just try to make it more natural next time, and maybe take it a little further if that's ok with both of you.0