So i recently went through a nasty break up 4 months ago, and now im talking to this really awesome guy, he's very sweet a great listner and a very good cook. Butttt... he has NO JOB... NO CAR... AND STILL LIVES WITH HIS MOM! I can't really get past that. I work long long 12 hour shifts mon-sat and have two cars and my own place. He makes money through his youtube channel & let me tell you its not much. I really do want to be with him but i can't see myself being with a men that dont got pretty much nothing going for himself. He just sits in front of a laptop all day... but he so very cool to be around and very attractive. I just can't stand that he 26 and still living with his parents! Its turns me off... but his smile & his sweet words got me falling for him. So should i give him a chance or just remain friends with him. What would you do in this situation?
Oh yeah one more thing lol. He tells me that youtube will get him rich? Like dude get a real #job
- Yes, i would give a guy like this a chance.25%(9)24%(13)Vote21%(4)
- No waaaay39%(14)36%(20)Vote32%(6)
Most Helpful Guy
Will be might have plans for his YouTube channel... his earnings will definitely increase one day... If he is dedicated to his channel...
Think about this that today even if he isn't earning much time tomorrow he might earn more than enough... Then what will you do then? You solely wanna drop him because of his way of making money...
Even YouTube is a job... Even if it's not a white collar job... It's a pink collar...
I say Talk to him and ask him about his future plans and ambitions... If you don't wanna date him don't date him then...
Most Helpful Girl
Th job thing would be a deal breaker for me. As much as I would love for everyone to follow their dreams and work for their dream job, thats just not how reality works.
If he didn't have a job he'd better be looking for one. If he doesn't have a car or his own place, thats fine. As long as he has goals to achieve those things.1