Okay so we were dating for 4 months, I cared about the guy a great deal.. and he ended it over just a few disagreements then cold turkey ignored... the confusion and pain was very hurtful... well after 3 months of not talking he finally texted/messaged me on 4 diff days.. I haven't answered and I don't know if I should... I appreciate any advice... my dad absolutely hates him too and my mom died 8 years ago..
Here is what he texted:
"Hey how are you? I wanna say I have been thinking a lot lately and I'm very very sorry for the way I handled things and all that. I don't know why I did but you didn't deserve that at all. I'll understand if you dont answer "
" Hey I guess you're not gunna accept my apology that I texted u the other day... I completely understand"
"Hey I guess you really do hate me. I get it. I'm trying to just be nice and apologize to you"
Thoughts? Should I answer and what does it sound like to you do you think he also is looking to get back? I've moved on
Most Helpful Guy
If you've moved on, you've answered your own question. Looking back doesn't do you any favors. You can see the lightpoles you didn't run into. But you can't see the ones ahead that you will. Give him another chance, don't give him one... that's your choice. But in my mind he had his chance, and blew it. There's consequences in life for missed chances, and this is one of them.1
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Most Helpful Girl
One text could mean that he just wanted to apologize because he felt guilty. Four texts however.. He's definitely trying to do more than just clear his conscience. Too bad he blew his shot. I would just accept his apology and leave it at that. He was a dick and he recognizes that, so I would answer back, but ONLY to accept his apology. Nothing more than that.0