Why do guys think I'm interested when I'm not?
I've had this happen to me multiple times and I don't know why. I become friends with a guy, just friends or acquaintances even, and they think I'm interested or that they have a chance of dating. I treat them nice but not overly nice, I dont flirt , I dont walk with them alone or try to see them one on one because I'm usually uncomfortable being around most guys Alone, I respond to their texts but dont text 24/7, and yet they think I'm into them because I'm not a huge bitch. Why is this? I feel like I can't even be nice and have conversations with guys like this because they get the wrong hint and make me the bad guy when I say no to being asked out. I'm not flirty , why do they assume I'm interested? I've had a guy tell his friends that we were "talking" (a stage before dating) , and I had to literally tell him we have no chances of being together for him to understand no means no. I'm getting uncomfortable since I'm in this situation again, why do some guys act like this? I dont understand why they assume I want to date them because im friendly.
Is it weird that I'm attracted to older men? Do guys sometimes spend money on a girl to guilt her into giving them a second date? Why do guys think they can do whatever they want when they're single? Would you date someone who is insecure? My boyfriend follows random girls on Instagram, should I be worried?
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Because they're attracted to you plain and simple.2
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