Given how we met and some things in her life, I was ok with being friends at first. Until her ex got in. She knew how I felt about her, and hid this ex when I had previously asked about her background (she asked about mine and I was 100% honest with her).
It hasn't happened -- yet -- but some people have said that I will probably hear from her again. I ditched her after she seconded me for her ex. Some people said I will probably hear from her when she wants a second chance, especially if reuniting with her ex goes bad.
Male or female: has this ever happened to you, in any capacity? Did you later hear back from the person? How did you react?
Also: male & female, have you ever asked for a second chance? Why?
Many years ago I had a girl ask for a second chance. Since I had just started a new relationship, I shot her down.
Certain similarities strike me about my past and present. Anyone else got something to share?
Most Helpful Girl
I read today that 44% of exes go back and give things another go.
For me, I have to say no. Once I'm done, I'm done and I don't see or feel the need to keep repeating the same-old. Also, if someone ever ditched me to go back to their ex, I would not be inviting them back into my life just to see where it could go. I already know that they have indifferent feelings towards me and I am the back-up plan. A total swerve for me.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Guy
Not to me personally, but very often girls will give an ex repeated second chances. If you're unlucky enough to e involved with her, she'll always want to give YOU a second chance as well, when things with the ex fall apart... as they generally will.
Somehow, girls think it's perfectly ok to hide their relationship with the ex from a new guy... and will get mad if you object!0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE