I recently called it quits with a girl. We weren't official, but after she pulled the "friendzone" thing with me, I found out she and her ex reconnected, and she wanted him, instead.
Given how we met and some things in her life, I was ok with being friends at first. Until her ex got in. She knew how I felt about her, and hid this ex when I had previously asked about her background (she asked about mine and I was 100% honest with her).
It hasn't happened -- yet -- but some people have said that I will probably hear from her again. I ditched her after she seconded me for her ex. Some people said I will probably hear from her when she wants a second chance, especially if reuniting with her ex goes bad.
Male or female: has this ever happened to you, in any capacity? Did you later hear back from the person? How did you react?
Also: male & female, have you ever asked for a second chance? Why?
Many years ago I had a girl ask for a second chance. Since I had just started a new relationship, I shot her down.
Certain similarities strike me about my past and present. Anyone else got something to share?
Most Helpful Girl
I read today that 44% of exes go back and give things another go.
For me, I have to say no. Once I'm done, I'm done and I don't see or feel the need to keep repeating the same-old. Also, if someone ever ditched me to go back to their ex, I would not be inviting them back into my life just to see where it could go. I already know that they have indifferent feelings towards me and I am the back-up plan. A total swerve for me.0
Most Helpful Guy
Not to me personally, but very often girls will give an ex repeated second chances. If you're unlucky enough to e involved with her, she'll always want to give YOU a second chance as well, when things with the ex fall apart... as they generally will.
Somehow, girls think it's perfectly ok to hide their relationship with the ex from a new guy... and will get mad if you object!0