multiple guys have asked me out, to which i've said no many times. yet somehow the response is always "well you've never tried so why don't you?" and i don't know what i'm supposed to do? i hate confrontation and have anxiety and i need advice thanks
ths might come off as petty like "oh at least people want to go out with you" but this is really stressing me out i have like 5 friends and zero social life and they get mad at me when i tell them no a second time like what should i do?
Most Helpful Guy
just tell them that you don't feel comfortable or ready to date. also you don't need many friends to have a social life you dork, being an introvert is the best thing in the world! remember, you always have a decision, don't ever feel obligated to date anyone3
Most Helpful Girl
Hey if you don't feel comfortable don't go forward with it. You vacant just please someone and then not care about your own feelings. You're human too, if you're not okay with it then just leave it alone. When you're ready you'll know and you'll have flocks coming to you lol. I'm in your position and yeah I agree that sometimes people only think for themselves and not your perspective per se. However, you are you! Only you can make your decisions. Don't do something that'll make you feel unhappy and unsatisfied. 'The end justifies the means'0