I think playing hard to get is completely fucking stupid and does nothing but piss me off and make me want to simply cut my losses and move onto the next girl that won't play idiotic games. Texting back hours or days later, always responding with "maybe" or "I am busy" when we know you are not, not answering calls, pissing us off by talking about other guys yet still obviously flirting with us, wanting the guy to do all the work, etc. It's all completely fucking stupid. Look it is very very simple, if you have been talking to a guy you like and he asks you out, then fucking go out with him and stop playing game. God I swear girls are clearly the less intelligent and weak minded race sometimes.
Most Helpful Girl
Woah woah woah, your righteousness right now is at 10 we need to dial that back to a 2. First thing first women are not a weak minded or a less intelligent race. I understand your frustration when it comes to playing the game of being hard to get. I agree 100% that it makes no damn sense, but you forget to understand no girl was given a book on how to deal men at birth. The way they learn how to deal with men is from dating gurus, books, friends and etc. Now a lot of shit that is spouted from those sources are wrong, but people who follow that advice does not KNOW that it's wrong and continue do it thinking that it's cute. Rather than belittling women, how about educating them, like starting with the women in your life who follow the gospel of playing hard to get. EXPLAIN why it's not working and give them viable alternative flirting techniques they can use instead. Being angry at all women is not going to change anything, except for women's opinions on you personally.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Guy
I agree with you my man. Though not every woman is like this.
nothing wrong with showing a little resistance to give yourself distance to assess the situation, but many women dont know when to STOP. I've seen women who still front WHILE in a relationship... what the fuck.. how you play hard to get, succumb and agree... then play hard to get again?
They may not necessarily be weak minded with low intelligence, but when it comes to dealing with men... they are damn near rock stupid.
can't blame em sometimes, they've gotta deal with something they dont know. What i blame them for is not taking the time to learn.
Thats why you move on, no time to waste... but me personally.. depending on how irritated she made me... she just becomes a trophy, another mountain to climb, and after i stick my flag in the top... im out.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE