So this guy I'm going to be going for coffee with originally suggested we get together for beer pong or kings cup.
He is a bartender at Applebees who also waits tables, he was my waiter and I left him my number. I'm only 20 so I can't drink or anything.
When he asked what my plans were for the weekend I let him choose what we did. He first suggested 'its been a long week, how about beer pong or kings cup/" I told him I had an early morning the morning after and asked for coffee instead (that was what we had originally talked about when he texted me on Monday) and he said "i agree, that would probably be a better thing to do the first time we hang out."
So I don't know if he's testing me, or if he just showed his true colors, or what. I know I'm gonna be weary going into this though simply because he brought up drinking the first time we even hang out.
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I can understand why you're weary, but I recently went out on a first date on Monday, and we went out for drinks. He didn't try anything and wants to take me out again btw. I think it's just what appeals to guys most really. I mean, yeah he could have asked you out for dinner or whatever, but you don't know each other yet, so a good convo over some drinks to lighten the mood and help you feel more comfortable is probably harmless. He was probs just trying to come across as cool or whatever so I woudn't read into it too much. There's nothing wrong with having a coffee, but I do think guys generally associate this with a 'friends' thing. At the end of the day though, if he's respectful and wants to get toknow you then he won't mind doing what you want to do. Just make sure you let him do the persuing and that way you can be sure he is really interested :)
Let us know how it goes anyway :D0