Well me and my now ex broke up in Mid July. I agree with you, I find when I speak with someone who is foreign they seem to be a better match for me. And the same things you have said. Now I knew that from long go before i ever met my ex.
I myself have in the last week, gone abroad to look for a potential mate. I'm currently exploring the Asian world to see if I would like them. I do like Indian women too though. They are very gorgeous, just like yourself lol. (white guy btw😉)
I hope you find everything your heart desires. Yeah so do i find that other races are more attractive than my own. Thank you for saying I am gorgeous. I wanna travel too <3
Lol, I haven't traveled anywhere. When I said "gone abroad" I meant, that I am simply exploring my options abroad from the U. S. I DO however enjoy traveling. I'm a truck driver. I've seen the whole lower United States. So traveling is my thing haha. And you're welcome for the compliment.
Can you elaborate on that. I knew someone who had this common preference for American women. Meaning, it didn't matter where the girl was from, as long as she was super white, with pink lips, and etc, common features of an American white women. Is that a bad thing?
@i_research a preference is okay, a lot of people have preferences. If someone has a preference for indian women that just means he likes your features. I prefer indian womem myself, maybe because looks or maybe familiarity.A fetish is different , its like a sexual obsession with your looks. That usually doesn't go away. You may enjoy the attention at first but later this can creep you out. Most guys date girls initially attracted by looks but grow to lobe them as a whole for whom they are. But people with fetishes may never reach that depth.And im not saying all white men will fetishize you, but a lot of guys who date interracially do so, bases on fetishes they have.I have seen many normal relationships of european men and indian/sri lankan women.
@i_research oh im sorry, i tought you were the op lol, my bad.Just disregard the part where i say indian women and european guys and insert any race you want, it holds true with everyone
lol, no worries and thanks for the explanation
PS i find other races besides indian and white attractive. If someone is attractive they just are
Thanks for mho
But when we talk about white women and Indian men very few like us.#UnfairSociety
@Indian-African That's true. I have seen only two couples (white women/Indian guy) in my life.
Yep life is very cruel and unfair to me.I know I will never ever find love in my life because of my race and there is nothing I can do about it.
@Indian-African Date someone from your own race?
Why do you people always say this?Why are white men allowed to date Indian men?I am not a hindu so why would I date Indian girls? And I don't live in India so I don't know or live around any Indians.
@Indian-African "Why are white men allowed to date Indian men?"
@Indian-African I can't control other peoples preferences. That's just life. I'm sure you can find someone one day.
No I won't because according to all women Indian men = Skinny nerd who drives a taxi, owns a convenience store, eats curry, not athletic or doesn't play sports because only American football and basketball are considered "manly" sports and everyone hates Football (soccer) and cricket, talks with a accent like apu, works in a call centre and eats curry and vegetarian food.
And small penis.
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Thank you awww. Ur so sweet :)
Judging from yours I would reciprocate
Nice choice of words 😉
Yea I used to think I wanted a certain blood line. But I am kind of turned off by men of my race now.
Most girls are because of the customs that come with marrying a man that is within the culture... Women having to do so much work for his family and alll... also the type of dominance men might show towards herInterracial marriages seem to do quite well when you find the right person
I am indian in ethnicity but I am from the Caribbean
Yep white men love Indian women, white women hate Indian men and now even Indian women hate us.
Awww i'm 7 years older than you. :( ur cute though
5 years older. I'm 20. i made this acount 2 years ago and the age just never bloody changed for some reason xD
@Indian-African Mmmm. . . I used to participate in an Asian-American forum where this was frequently a topic. It was called the ModelMinority. Have you ever heard of it?I don't know quite what to say in response. But maybe if you do feel discrimination from women in America, you could try going overseas. Especially to Eastern Europe. They don't seem to have the same hangups.
@RolandCuthbert Yeah we're the "model minority" but white women are not flocking to us. They prefer white men and black thugs.
@Indian-African You are just making up a sob story. I know too many Indian guys who get a lot of play. You can't blame your lack of women skills on being Indian. But I know more than few guys who are bad at this game. I usually recommend international dating for them, if they can afford to make the trips.
@RolandCuthbert You are a liar. I have lived in the U. S for more than 7 years, lived in numerous states and I have not seen one white woman with a Indian man. All I see is pretty white girls with their black thug boyfriends or tank top wearing douchebag boyfriends.I even went to high school with a high amount of Indians but still none of the white girls dated the Indian guys.Even on t. v they never show white women with Indian men.
@Indian-African Well, there is one way to find out, right? That is to grow some balls and let's arrange to talk. You can query all my Indian friends to find out about dating "White" women. A is a typical player. It isn't like he has much respect for women. Mostly just refers to them as freaks. But that's his way.By the way, he isn't so much on the straight and narrow, if you catch my drift.
@Indian-African Oh wait just a minute. You did not just mention there are no interracial relationships involving Indian men on television. Dude, if you notice, Asian men don't have romantic relations with "White" women in the media, period. It ain't just about Indian men. But hopefully things will change soon.
@RolandCuthbert Which is unfair and racist that they only show white women with black men and white men.Your friends does not cancel out the fact that white women with Indian men is rare or non existent, The majority of white women who date outside of their race date black men due to penis size, the "gangsta image" etc.On T. V we're just portrayed as taxi drivers, nerds, and convenience store clerks.
@Indian-African No all those insane racist stereotypes are just insane and racist. I used to date a "White" woman would tell people that racist crap on purpose. She said if they are stupid enough to believe it, why is that her fault?So no, you can approach open-minded women. It is just a matter of if you will or not. The problem is you are not owning up to your problem. If the reason you are alone is because of other people. . . then, you are screwed.It's that simple.But you know this. And when you own up to it, you will find happiness. And if you don't own up to it. . . you will not.
@RolandCuthbert How am I supposed to know which ones are open minded when I view all white women as racists.
@Indian-African Right, you are totally screwed. What else do you want me to say? A man with imaginary demons, is a dangerous man.I can't convince you the boogey man is not there. You have to remove that specter from your own mind. But I am sure when you do, you will find happiness.This is all about choices.
@RolandCuthbert They are the ones who gave me such a bad impression of white women. They are not innocent victims.
@Indian-African I don't know who or what gave you a bad impression. But if I thought all "White" people were bad, I could not have the friends I do, I could not have had the relationships I have had, and I could not be the man I am today. Like I said, it is you who is holding onto this hate and fear.Just let it go. Choose to do something different.
@RolandCuthbert Im not afraid. Also white people always say Indians are all bad and we all rape women and we all steal jobs and all work in call centres.
@Indian-African? I am "Black". I just had to experience some bs about having a huge penis and nailing "White" women. I survived that racist bs. And you will too. I know it is lonely. I know it is frustrating. But you cannot find happiness believing in fantasy. You are probably awkward socially, but for some reason you would rather blame being Indian than admit to having issues with social interaction.And if you let this continue to eat at you, this will end badly.But you are choosing to fail at this point. You are not choosing to be a success.
@RolandCuthbert Omagerd you're a psychic you know so much about me.(sacrasm)You don't know me personally so you cannot make any assumption about my personality.
@Indian-African I know this. You are all about you. The world did you so wrong. Indian women did you so wrong. "White" women did you so wrong.And you lack the ability to make yourself into a bad mf. You can't educate yourself, learn to speak different languages, experience other cultures and just become a bad ass irresistible James Bond type.Nope. The simple act of being Indian denies you the ability to build yourself into a three dimensional full human being. It denies you the ability to improve yourself and find happiness.Of course, that is the lie you tell yourself. You can't fix this situation, by simply using your brain and building a plan.Got it.
@RolandCuthbert Why should I learn other languages. I only speak English.Also Urdu is a pakistani language not Indian.
@Indian-African oh, is not an official language anywhere in India? Raj speaks it, Ash speaks it and so does Ash mother.We hung out a lot. What am I saying? I have been with Raj's entire family.Do you want to do facebook? They are all my friends.
@RolandCuthbert My mother also speaks both Urdu and Hindi. Im not saying Indians don't speak urdu but it is mostly spoken in Pakistan and associated with pakistan. And no thanks on your offer. I don't like talking to other Indians because 1. They expect me to speak their language 2. They are hindu and hate Indian Christians and 3. Whenever I hang out with them I don't understand them and can't join the conversation because they speak their language and refuse to speak English.
@Indian-African Well, whatever. Raj is Christian by the way. So is his entire family. But when we first met, I asked if he spoke Hindi. He got angry.I thought he was going to whup my ass.
@RolandCuthbert Most Indian Christians like myself have Christian names like my name is Isaac.
@Indian-African I have no idea when Rajesh converted. But his parents are Christian also.
@RolandCuthbert Im not a convert, neither are my grandparents, their parents etc.
No. I would date one exactly where i am from. Don't need a green card.
I just assume you Indian girl traitors want white guys for green card and money because you think they're rich.I've noticed now that a lot of Indian women are now going after white men meanwhile no women like us Indian men. And no I am not from India and I am not a hindu, muslim or a vegetarian like you.Also as a hindu your culture and diet is not compatible with white people because you like spicy vegetarian food and you hindu girls mostly eat dhal and roti/rice. No beef, no chicken, no pork.Thats why I am grateful that I am a Gujarati Christian.
Dude, this doesn't mean she is a "traitor". Maybe she just wants to include "White" guys in her dating pool. Either way, it doesn't matter, there isn't anything you can do other than develop yourself and work to ensure your own happiness.
@RolandCuthbert There is nothing I can do. All women hate Indian men. I will be alone for the rest of my life. I could go and become fit etc but women will still not like me because I am Indian.
That's just not true player. There are plenty of women who date Indian guys. And if we knew each other, I would show who, when and where. One my best friends is half Indian and half Arab. Speaks Urdu fluently. And can't really find a woman who will say no to him.
@RolandCuthbert Im full blooded Gujarati Christian, I only speak English, I eat the same food as you white people (beef, pork, chicken etc) yet they don't like me.
It doesn't matter, if you are half blooded, a quarter blooded, or 5/17th blooded. The way race functions in America has little to do with your genetics. Normally people don't quiz you, they simply throw you in a group and there you stay. I know damn well, I have European and American Indian heritage in me. But no one cares, so why should I?My bud A ain't "White", that is all that matters. Yet, he has no problems at all. Women don't go. . . oh, I can tell you are only half Indian, so I won't be racist against you. It doesn't work that way.So if you want to date "White" chicks, the only thing stopping you is your lack of confidence. Which is fine. Many of us are not confident in the dating game. We find ways to cope with that.
@RolandCuthbert First of all Native Americans are not Indian.And my lack of confidence is caused by the racism perpetuated by white women against Indian men i. e "they smell bad hahaha", "they have small dicks", "they talk funny", "they rape women", "they send women harassing messages online".
What in the world are you talking about? If I wanted to say American Indian, I know how to type "American Indian". A is half Indians and half Arab. His father is Arab, his mother is Indian. You don't learn to speak Urdu by hanging out with Sioux or Apaches.?
@RolandCuthbert I mean you cannot use the term Indian in relation to Native Americans because they were called that by mistake and there are only one kind of Indians and thats people from India.I don't like people stealing the name of my race and misusing it to describe something else.
You can dislike anything you wish. American Indians decided to be called the name American Indian long before you were born.Why they are called "Native American"? Who the hell knows? But at their conference in Europe back in the 70s, they made that decision. If you take offense. Take your offense and get on with living your life.Or blaming the world for being single. At least do something.In 1968, the American Indian Movement was founded. In 1977, a delegation from the International Indian Treaty Council, an arm of AIM, elected to collectively identify as "American Indian", at the United Nations Conference on Indians in the Americas at Geneva, Switzerland. Some activists and public figures of indigenous descent, such as Russell Means, prefer "American Indian" to the more recently adopted "Native American".
@RolandCuthbert So people from India are not Indian? Because of them I cannot circle Indian when I fill out application forms etc.Indians from India were called Indian FIRST. Not native Americans.
You can make it all about you if you need to. I find a lot of that here at GaG. This the name they choose for themselves at a formal conference in 1977. It doesn't take anything from Indian people who live in India. I am quite sure Indians don't go around confusing themselves for American Indians because of the word "Indian".Well, at least the ones I know. Maybe it is just you who are confused. Either way, this is another one of those situations. You can't change the world. Only yourself.
@RolandCuthbert Im not confused. If I ask a question about Indians I get responses like "dot or feather"?Also the baseball team cleveland "Indians" should be renamed to cleveland native Americans.
Like I said, you can complain about things that will never change if you wish.Good luck.
unfortunately I don't know what you look like :(
I am curious, I am not asking anyone to be with me right now.
Curious about what... normally girl do these fetishes over black dudes
Certainly any Indian woman as good looking as you.
Thank you :)