Overcoming fear of intimacy, is it even possible?

Anonymous
To make a long story short, I was subject to military sexual trauma by a superior officer and I now suffer from post traumatic stress disorder and depression from the incident. I'm in therapy and have making progress however, I find it very difficult to get close to men because of it.

When guys show interest in me, I get scared and back away. I've been told by men that I was frigid, cold and had no personality, which isn't true but I am very hard to get close to because of what happened to me.

Rest assured I am getting help, but I want to avoid hindering my chances at finding love. If I told a guy up front about my situation, would that be a deal breaker?
Overcoming fear of intimacy, is it even possible?
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