I've been talking to this guy on and off for about 4 months. I seen him while out running errands; and it was like an attraction that I couldn't resist. From the beginning he stated that he was very busy and wasn't looking for a relationship right now. I was fine with that because he made that known at first. Then we had sex. Now, we both have baggage... yeah exes. Also, there's this age difference- he's in his mid twenties and I'm 19. I want to build a relationship with him because I feel like he posses the traits I want in a mate. However, he tells me I'm inconsistent because I will talk to him for a while then disappear. I only do that to protect my feelings and not invest so much into him. Or when I feel like I'm chasing him. I feel like our dynamic is off but I'm used to unconventional. So, should I wait it out and see?