I asked this question mainly because I'm shy (I don't put myself out there that much) and lack experience.
Well i personally don't think it's important, for me it's probably better. I don't have experience myself. But i think girls who are only looking for guys with experience don't particularly want a long term thing anyways
But in my life that seems to be all the girls want guys who know what they are doing. I also believe there is a double standard say that it's okay for a GIRL to be a virgin as long as she wants to, but for a GUY it is not acceptable. I feel pressure to lose it.
Yeah i know what you mean, but decent people wouldn't actually care. If you really like someone it shouldn't matter. I'm still a virgin and some guys didn't like it so i moved on because i knew that guy just wanted one particular thing
Good for you. Your virginity shouldn't matter to someone else, but unfortunately does for a lot of people.
Exactly, and you get experience with time we can't all have experience right away
TBH I wish I had it right now.
Well it says that you're under 18 so you can't have that much experience. It's always better to not have a lot of experience rather than being a fuckboi
I'm 17 and not according to this poll.
Well you can't have experience at 17, and it depends on people tbh i know that some guys prefer girls with experience as well and it sucks but you don't have to deal with those people
Some guys defienitely do want girls with experience. But there are more guys that would accept a virgin, than girls that would accept a virgin. And you can have experience at 17. My brothers have, my friends have, and if this poll is accurate of what girls would much rather have in a guy. Looks like i'm fucked.
Tbh i used to think the same but finding a guy who'd prefer a virgin is actually so much harder. Guys don't want that responsibility. And you're not fucked, it's not every girl's opinion
True. But I already feel like my chances are lower than the rest of guys, plus the fact that i'm a virgin.
That's not true, of course if you keep thinking like that girls will think you're not comfortable. But if you feel comfortable its what matters.
And i'm obviously not comfortable with who I am and what I look like. I don't even see opportunities to get with a girl, let alone actually get with one.
Then change that. Do what makes you comfortable, if you want to change how much your hair look then do it. Girls don't look at guys the same way guys look at girls
Even if I was comfortable with myself, I still don't see how i'm going to succeed. I'm not that comfortable in large groups and I don't initiate conversations with girls whom I find attractive because my head gets in the way.
Well i totally understand, I'm like that as well but to be honest i feel morn comfortable everytime. I don't think you'll believe that because everyone says that it but when i was 18 i felt mort anxious to and shy than right now. I used to to never talk to guys and i last week i was basically flirting with a guy and it wasn't that bad. So what I'm saying is that you should try to get out of your comfort zone and just try to at least start a conversation with people. Not in front of a group of people but when they're alone
I know I need to convince myself to get out of my comfort zone. But I never know where to start. I have a year left in high school if that matters.
I hated high school. I think if you are going to uni you'll be able to start over since no one knows you
Depends where I go. I have two options. One is 1 hour and 30 minutes away. The other is in my hometown. Still probably won't change much.
But it's still bigger so it's easier anyways
Maybe I believed I was good looking things would work out.
It depends on people, some might think you're not their type but some others might find you attractive. If you're confident people will see it and you'll automatically be more attractive. Try to change what you don't life about yourself and you'll feel more confident
I just followed you on my real account so you can see what I look like.
You don't look bad at all! I'm not even just being nice because i hate when people aren't honest. I know how you feel about because I'm very insecure and shy but you look great! Your brain is stopping yourself from having real opportunities and that sucks. Your look isn't a real issue, it's just in your head
Thank you. I think that too.
I just realized I misread this poll. My goodness I am dumb.
Hahaha i actually misread it the second time i checked and i was so disgusted in girls 😂
I was acting like this was the end of the world. I can be really dumb at times.
We all can be haha at least you know it's the opposite of what you were thinking
Yeah now it's just about getting out actually doing it.
Yeah it's always the hardest part but you can do it. Just imagine that you're someone else haha
You see I am definitely not cocky. But I am shy enough around girls to not put myself out there, because I don't expect success because i've never had it.
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