I'm getting to know a guy right now. We're going out soon, after he comes home from a trip, and he certainly has baggage. A lot of it. I do as well. So I wonder how it's going to go.
Lol thats true, times are different. She and my mom were married so i figured they're onto something. I don't know a lot of people getting married anymore.
yeah, i know... my mom was married by 26ish. my grandma married at 15. LOL. i'm on the uglier side of 25 with no man in site.
Lol same. I mean I'm 22 and haven't had a serious relationship I guess that's normal.
yeah, that's normal :)
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What makes it disrespectful?
Why withhold something you yourself want under the idea that he is distrustful and disloyal by default and only by being deprived of something wonderful will he be loyal?
I don't assume the guy is distrustful or disloyal in the beginning. But he also hasn't earned my trust in the beginning as well, as I'm sure I haven't as well. That's why I want to take the time to get to know him better. Of course I want sex, a lot of people do, but I don't want to put myself in the same situation again. It's not withholding to make him loyal. I see it as just seeing if he's into me not just for the sex
So you only have it when you yourself feel like you want to, yes? It's not like you have already decided that you will be doing it but after an arbitrary amount of time, yes?
I'll do it when I feel comfortable. I'm giving my body to somebody that can potentially use me. If he doesn't want to wait, I understand. He needs to be with someone who is comfortable having sex immediately.
Not every guy wants to do it right away.